20 December 2011

When Mothers Kill Their Offsprings


say no to child abuse !
Walking along the street of A.H. Lacson, I saw a typical scene of what seemed to be a street child having a tantrum and a mother who tries to console her child. The boy, aged below ten years, was covered in  tears and clothed in dirt and grime. The lady, who seemed to be the mother, was slapping him mercilessly on his cheeks, alternating sides with every slap.  Not so typical scene for a child who just wants to have another toy, I thought. I was never slapped by wanting something I couldn't have.

As I was getting nearer, I started to hear their conversation. "Wag mo pakialaman yung pagkain ko ah!", the lady cried in the middle of the street. The boy, clinged on to her leg, while trying to avoid another slap. Ba't ba lagi ako pinagbibintangan mo? Finally, the boy answered back. Ako hindi na nakakain kasi pinapalamon ko na sainyo lahat, ngayon lang ako makakakain pinakelaman mo pa. Another hand fell on the boy's cheek.

It was a heartbreaking moment, seeing a mother not willing to suffer for her children. But who are we to judge her actions? She must've been that hungry and must've given her whole life for her family and for a moment, wanted something for her own. She needs nourishment too. Scarcity truly can bring the worst out of people.

After passing by Richville to drop something for a friend, I passed by the same scene. A twisted cloth was already around the child's neck, both ends pulled on by the mother. Sanamagan!

7 comments:

  1. Another real sad story. Sorry for the child, kawawa naman siya dapat sa edad nyang yan hindi nya nararanasan ang mga ganyang bagay. Pero hindi naman natin mahuhusgahan yung Mama nya maybe because sa gutom na rin, hindi na nya alam ang ginagawa nya kasi baka sobrang hirap na hirap siya...

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  2. maybe your right,but i think sa opinyun ko lang,they should foresee that before they wanted to have a child,hindi naman kasi dahilan para manakit ng anak,ive been beaten by my father before but when he did that my father never do it again,shes still the mother, scarcity yes sometimes may be the reason,pero hindi naman ceguro always nalang yan ang reason, it never ever valid on God, beside child yun,hindi naman yun walang hiyang bata seguro...well i like you share this,at the end you never judge the mother but still shes not forgiven...she may have reasons to give God nalang bahala sa kanya,i feel sad about it, marami naman pagkain bakit di nalang nya ibigay grrr hahah well enough of me...real story to reflect to...

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  3. Omg that's terrible.

    What's sanamagan?

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  4. Ayokong nakakakita ng mga ganiang scene. Heart-breaking. :(

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  5. @inong- i think kahit anung age pa yan, di nya deserve ang ganung treatment. :)

    @cherie ann - true. sobrang napaisip ako nung nakita ko to eh.. and the pain is also emotional, i know a lot of people who develop psychiatric disorders because of childhood violence.

    @citybuoy- Sanamagan is a term used by the late Philippine STAR columnist Maximo Soliven which is a filipinized version of "Son of a gun". Para syang "Madapaka"

    @aix - pag nakita mo siguro mas heartbreaking sya.

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  6. most present societies suffer from institutional parental narcissism. this just seem so much more tragic because the mother herself has nothing. but its the mothers and fathers of wealthy families that do the most harm in society by raising emotionally disabled petty tyrants who run the world...

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  7. at least institutional parent narcissists don't physically abuse children. Although I'm not saying less harm is done. :)

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